After centuries upon centuries of dissecting the male brain one determines there are no areas of grey. The average human male only sees black or white (unless of course he’s a politician). This is where the sexes differ. Women are emotional creatures who therefore operate on that very basis. Men are…. well for lack of a better term….. uni-cellular in their way of thinking. They believe if you slap a Band-Aid on it pre-Neosporin, the cut is healed. But there is so much that lies beneath the surface bubbling and broiling. You can’t really throw a blanket over it and pretend it’s not there.
My boyfriend (soon-to-be ex) decided he was going to patch up a friendship gone wrong between 2 females. I guess he thought that if he had the women come together to talk that things would work themselves out. I guess his ultimate goal was for them to apologize to each other and that’d be that. But there’s no accounting for hurt feelings and damaged ego.. Simple “I’m sorries” just ain’t gonna cut it. That’s my problem with him. He thinks lip service will do the trick. Doing and saying are vastly two different entities altogether. Him saying “I’m sorry” and doing the opposite doesn’t exactly speed the healing process. You think because you made your side chick apologize to me that I’ll settle down and accept her in your life? really?