after careful self-analysis, I’ve determined that I’m very goal oriented when it comes to work. I like working in teams especially when the overall work ethic is great. But when it falls on the opposite end of the spectrum, I find it disheartening; frustrating even. I think it’s a big deal when co-workers show up late or not at – all. or when other people don’t pull their weight. because I know how great the results would be if we could all just band together and get it done. same theory applies to living together in a household. But when one person’s pulling their weight and the rest isn’t, it feels like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders.